Giving head, or fellatio if you're nasty, can be intimidating. How do you give a good blow job anyway? Everyone's personal preferences are different, but there a few tried and true techniques (and toys) for upping your oral sex game and making it enjoyable for both of you. Get ready to blow your partner's mind, pun intended.
Let us share a secret - a fantastic blow job is actually a souped up hand job. Think of your hands as your BJ secret weapon. The shaft of the penis responds well to massage and firm pressure, which your hands can do much more effectively than your mouth. The underside of the head of the penis, the frenulum, is where most of the nerve endings are located and this is where you can focus your tongue and mouth techniques. Priming the penis for focused frenulum and head stimulation with your hands builds anticipation and increases arousal for your partner. If you want to level up the experience, accompany your hand techniques with an open ended masturbation sleeve on the shaft. When lubed up,d masturbation sleeves intensify your hand strokes and can even simulate the sensations of deep throating.